Tuesday, April 24, 2018

Ten Years Later...Will Casey Anthony Ever Be Forgiven?


In 2011, Casey Anthony was acquitted of the murder of her 2 year old daughter, Caylee.
The case was sensationalized all over the World and the mystery surrounding Caylee's death has never really been adequately explained.
The conflicting stories told by her mother, Casey would only further obscure the truth and slowed down the process
in finding her daughter, whom she claimed had been missing for thirty one days.
It was during this time that Casey's father George Anthony, in picking up his daughter's broken down car, opened the trunk
and found bags of stifling garbage and also ... the smell of a dead body.
Her mother Cindy immediately called the Police to report her grandchild missing and later, again to report the smell in her daughter's car.
When Casey was asked why she hadn't reported her daughter missing sooner, a convolution of lies were told that were so twisted
and unbelievable that neither the Police nor the public knew what to believe.
And the search for Caylee began as her mother, Casey partied with friends and co-workers.
On December 11, 2008, Caylee's remains were found with a blanket inside of a trash bag in a wooded area near the Anthony's home.
Casey Anthony was charged with the first degree murder of her daughter Caylee on October 2008.
The trial lasted six weeks.
The prosecution asked for the death penalty and alleged Casey wanted to free herself from being a parent and murdered her daughter by giving her daughter chloroform and putting duct tape over her mouth.
The defense team, led by Jose Baez, argued that Caylee had drowned accidentally in the family's swimming pool on June 16, 2008, and that George Anthony had gotten rid of and in fact, hid the body. The defense stated that Casey lied about this and other important details due to a dysfunctional upbringing, and alluded to sexual abuse by her father. The defense showed no evidence as to how Caylee died or evidence that Casey was sexually abused as a child but called out every single piece of the prosecution's evidence, calling it "fantasy forensics".
Casey did not testify. On July 5, 2011, Casey was found not guilty of the first-degree murder of her daughter, Caylee, aggravated child abuse, and aggravated manslaughter of a child, but was found guilty of four misdemeanor counts of providing false information to a law enforcement officer. With credit for time served, she was released on July 17, 2011.
A Florida appeals court overturned two of the misdemeanor convictions on January 25, 2013.
The public was incensed and outraged and Casey Anthony became known as 'The Most Hated Mother in America.'

So what has happened in the ensuing years that has made this story all the more tragic, if that is even possible?
George and Cindy Anthony's home has been in foreclosure for the last few years and they may possibly lose their home.
Every single penny they had was spent on their daughter, Casey's defense.
George contends he never wants to hear or see from his daughter again although Cindy talks with Casey infrequently as does Casey's brother.
And Casey herself? Now thirty-two, Casey says she has has no problems sleeping at night and is still making accusations about her father, some very recently to which her father has said hurts him even more deeply than he has been.

She lives in Florida with the private investigator, Patrick McKenna who worked on her case, helps him with his current cases by social media and other types of investigative work and is trying to live a normal life. She has also had two civil suits brought against her.
Although the press no longer hounds her as they used to, the public remains outraged whenever her name is brought up in any fashion and it is very doubtful the heinous crime will ever be forgotten.

Caylee Anthony would be twelve years old today.
May She Rest In Peace.

For more information about this case, go to...https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_of_Caylee_Anthony

Until Next Time,
LizaBella

Saturday, March 28, 2015

What's Up Doc?

Doctors sometimes make mistakes. But most times, they are very right. My family doctor was one of those that had made a mistake. I had cat scan at a local hospital and they had found a large cyst on my right ovary. So on my next Dr's visit, a month or so later, I mentioned it to him, and he didn't seem concerned. I mentioned it on the next visit and the visit after and again, he wasn't concerned. But because I was having extreme lower back pain for the last two months, literally bedridden, he sent me to a Urologist to check for kidney stones. So they did another cat scan and late in the afternoon, the urologist called me. She told me that yes, I did have kidney stones but that was not causing my pain. She told me she could take the kidney stones out, but again, it wasn't going to stop the pain. Her tone was so serious that I had even mentioned it to my oldest son. She advised me to go back to my regular physician for tests and she would send the report. So, I did and my family Dr sat down, looked at the report and referred me to a gynecologist, not really telling me anything. Then he told me he would be gone for two weeks and walked out of the room. I met the woman who would become my gynecologistand I liked her instantly. She did pelvic ultrasound and an MRI. And she explained all to me; the test procedures, why I needed surgery, what would be done during surgery. . I had surgery three days later and the surgery did not go as exactly as planned. Supposedly, the surgery was going to take an hour or two at most. It turned out, it took five hours and as the as the gynecologist explained to me, I had a lot of scar tissue from an emergency appendectomy years ago. And that was a very difficult surgery because all of my organs were encased in it. And she told me that again, the tumor had to come out, it was five centimeters and explained that had I waited much longer, it would have become cancerous. She had taken my ovaries and fallopian tubes as well (we had discussed it before hand and I was fine with it or so I thought). It took me more than a few weeks to recover, both emotionally and physically and I still have hard days sometimes. I am so eternally grateful that this gynecologist treated me. She was honest and forthright but also very kind. She listened and heard your concerns and addressed them. And she saved my life. This is when doctors are right, when they find the answers and heal you.
Love and Light to you all, Ladiofzen

Monday, November 10, 2014

How To Love Someone You Can't Live With

When my partner and I met, it was not under the best of circumstances. She lived in Wisconsin and I lived in Texas. We talked about the problems we'd face since both of us had children. We didn't really know each other, having met online. Even so, we were much alike in certain ways and got along well. I had two grown sons here in Texas and she had a grown daughter and two sons in Wisconsin. Suffice to say we have never lived alone, just the two us. It has always been with someone, either a room mate of a relative. For six months, I lived in Wisconsin with her and then she followed me down to Texas, a place she never dreamed of living. And by the way, She is Scottish, born and bred although she's been here for some thirty years, she still has that thick Scottish brogue. Oh, and my grown sons live with me right now. They moved in a year ago, wanting to move to a place here in Austin they could afford...it still hasn't happened. We loved Austin and planned to make it our home until the problems started. She didn't like living with my sons and rightly so. We weren't living alone, something we had looked forward to when our last room mate left. And then my sons had contacted me...could they stay with us in Austin until they found a place? Three months tops and they would be moving out. Only it didn't happen that way. My sons looked for a place, but every place they considered was too expensive. And so the months went on until it was a year and then over a year passed while they still talked about moving and trying to save money for a place. Meanwhile, things in the house were getting ugly. The stress level was so bad that everyone was feeling it, even the dogs, of which we have three. But my partner and I were feeling it the worst. We began to fight, something we never really done before. For a year, I tried desperately was to keep the peace while my partner got louder and louder and more vocal, more and more upset about the situation. And she began to not only take it out on my sons, she began to take it out on me. There came a time when she had to go visit her daughter in Wisconsin for three weeks. I used that alone time to think, really think about my life in general. I decided the drama and tension had to go, no matter what, for everyone's sake. I also decided if the situation was so terrible for my partner, then it was time for her to find another place to live and she agreed. But when she started looking, she also realized that Austin is quite expensive and couldn't find a place she liked or could afford. Out of desperation, my partner decided to put up a tent outside in the back yard and that is what she did and not a tiny tent either. A large roomy tent with music, fabric draping and rugs and blankets with a futon, the way she wanted it. She took great care to waterproof it and it is a place where she could go and be alone. That is where she sleeps, where she lives for the most part an it has worked, for now. People have made comments, but it is what we need at this time. Will my partner and I stay together, who knows? We do love each other very much and want what is best for one another. That is what is important, after all... Until Next time... love and Light To you all, LadiofZen

Tuesday, September 16, 2014

Awakened



About four months ago, I had a mental breakdown.
There were a number of contributing factors;
I was ill and very thin from side effects from medication, I was also in the middle of a break up with my partner of nine months; a breakup my partner did not want, I had just lost my mother from Alzheimer's the previous October and was still in deep grief, both of my sons whom I love dearly were planning on moving away very soon to begin new lives, I was fifty three and looking at my life alone and frightened out of my wits and there was a tremendous amount of stress in the household.

These things did not cause my breakdown but they did contribute to it.
And so I went into a deep dark decline that I believed I would not come out of.
I was so sure of it that I decided on cremation because of cost and checked with an attorney about a will to be drawn up and decided to half my school funds for college between both of my sons for when I was no longer around.
In other words, I was going to commit suicide...

During that time where it was always midnight, I wept at the slightest provocation, which turned out to be constantly. I slept whenever and wherever I could, since my sleep cycle was so off, there would be times where I would not be able to sleep for a straight 48-72 hours, and so I was always exhausted mentally, physically and emotionally. I walked around in a medicated daze, not knowing what I was doing or saying and not even caring.

I did not want to talk...to anyone, not even to my brothers or sister.
I felt so completely alone in my suffering that I could not imagine anyone conceiving even slightly what I was going through and I was too exhausted to explain.
Not that my siblings tried that hard as we are not a close family and that is putting it mildly.
I received one phone call from my younger brother asking what was going on and when I didn't have the words to answer, he told me to call him back when I could talk.
I didn't call back.

I took it day by day, enduring the most intense emotional pain that I believe I have ever
experienced in my life, so intense that it became almost a physical thing.
I thought I would literally die from it and spent many a day and night in my ex partners arms
sobbing in deep pain and grief.
And I believed that if it didn't kill me, I would kill myself because I could not live through such horrible pain.
I began to give my things away and make necessary decisions and so became very peaceful in my emotional state.
I felt as though a great burden had been lifted.
I could finally breathe again. And I was, for the first time in a very long time, at peace.

Not so for my immediate family who were terrified and worried sick.
I refused to be hospitalized, explaining that I was choosing to handle things differently this time.
My sons were not fooled nor was my ex-partner who wasted no time in calling a 'Family Intervention' to confront me about my illness and how it was affecting the family.
The intervention was a failure as it ended with me sobbing in guilt and hysterical over the pain I was causing my sons. I simply could not see clearly enough to be reasoned with.

My family was at a loss so they simply waited, watched and gently cared for me.

It wasn't until my ex-partner's sister Monica came to stay that I had an awakening that saved me.

Monica is a twenty three year old singer/ songwriter who travels on the road.
Immensely talented, fiercely independent, wise beyond her years; it was she who after I had
given her an armload of my things as a gift, began to talk to me about my decision to end my life.
At the time I did not believe I was hearing her, but I was.

A day or so later, Monica left to go to Austin for a few days with musician friends she had
randomly met in downtown Dallas in a single night, in a town she had never been in.
Before she had left, she and Dylan had invited me to Florida to a 'Rainbow Gathering' for
several days of campfires, camp songs, camaraderie and total acceptance.
I hadn't given her an answer but told her I would think about it.

However, when she got back, I told not only would I go, but that I wanted one more chance to be happy. And that I would get down on my knees for one more chance. And that I would try really hard...to be happy.
And you want to know something amazing? I WAS Happy...
Because I made the 'Conscious Decision To BE Happy'.

Monica and Dylan were so overjoyed that they both jumped up and hugged me at once and my sons
are now reassured that 'Mom' is back on the road to recovery.
But it isn't as simple as it may seem. My recovery also requires a change of psychiatrist, a search for a new therapist and commitment to weekly therapy sessions, constant readjustment on my medication...it takes constant work on my part to STAY Happy because I have a brain disorder
that fights against me. When I start to become overwhelmed, I just think,"That means it's 'Me time'... Time to make 'Me' smile...

It Is All Worth It ... Because Life Really Is Beautiful!

And to my wonderful, amazing and loyal family and Friends; I Love You all Dearly With All Of My Heart. Thank You For Holding My Hand In The Dark. You All Are My Soul And My Heart Beat.

And Monica? You Are Awesome!

Until Next Time My Dear Friends...

Love and Light To You All,
LadiofZen

Saturday, May 25, 2013

Barking Dogs

It's been on my mind the last few days to wonder how many of you could save your dog from a dog attack? Could you save yourself? Case in point; The other day my partner and I took our dogs (a lab and small mix breed) on their daily walk around the block. Half way around the block we heard commotion that sounded suspiciously like a dog fight. I told my partner to stay back since our lab Paddy tends to be a bit excitable and went forward several steps with Ripley to see what I could see. What I saw was a very large dog with the stance of a German shepherd and the coat of a Chow, aggressively fighting with two small dogs through a chain link fence while their owners struggled with leashes to pull them away. When they finally got them loose, I mistakenly thought it was safe and motioned for my partner to come forward with Paddy. As soon as she did, the dog behind the fence charged us. Now this dog was in a yard that is not normally inhabited with a gate that always open, thankfully that day the gate was locked. Suffice to say, we turned around quietly and went the other way. But as we walked our dogs back home, I was more than struck by the fact that the situation could have become very serious very very quickly. Had that gate been open...I had brought no mace, no walking stick no weapon at all which was not very smart. In 2007, Texas led the nation with seven dog bite fatalities. I have friends whose dog was attacked right on her front lawn and required extensive surgery and it can happen when you or your dog least expects it. So be smart; follow some easy safety rules by James Roberts and Mark Lawrence. The greatest fighters in the world are the ones that prepare themselves for battle the best. Thus, if you want to live through a dog attack, it would be beneficial to be prepared. In other words, have some things on you that could be beneficial in a dogfight. Bear Pepper spray - It's never a bad idea to have pepper spray designed to make something trying to hurt you think twice. Look specifically for "bear pepper spray", which is powerful enough to deter grizzly bears. One thing to consider though, is this: Having pepper spray by itself doesn't mean you're safe from a dog attack (you'll read why in a moment). Further, sometimes it's best that you don't use any kind of spray with an angry dog. By the same token, it could end up helping. So why not at least have it on you? Sticks and stones may break his bones, but. . . well, who cares about names? Here's the thing: A good stick is worth a world of good. Why? Well they can be used in a variety of ways from hitting a dog on the nose, to more aggressive stances if that doesn't work. George Donahue at FightingArts.com even spoke of having a drumstick (real drums, not a turkey). In short, anything thin enough to get down a dog's throat and hard enough not to break. If it can be concealed, that may be even better (depending on the situation). Also remember that preparation means more than weapons. Thus, you should always be highly aware when traveling outside. Beyond that, know where the more aggressive dogs are along the routes you're traveling and don't be afraid to call that neighbor and tell them to leash their dog. In a time of collapse of course or even a "post-apocalypse" scenario, your neighbor may be dead, his dogs staying near their home, but attacking anything that passes by within eye sight or hearing range. Remember, dogs have better hearing than humans. How to Avoid a Dog Attack Okay, let's say you are prepared and then that dog comes running out of someone's yard angrily at you. DO NOT PULL THE PEPPER SPRAY OUT AND IMMEDIATELY SPRAY THEM! The reasoning for this is simple. Sometimes, pepper spray will only serve to make an attacking dog more angry. Thus, it's a last resort. First, you should try to avoid the confrontation. And that means. . . Do not appear threatening to the canine - Stare downs happen before boxing matches and MMA fights for a reason. Both competitors are obviously trying to intimidate one another. They want to let the other know that they're ready for the confrontation. Which is why you don't want to stare a dog in the eyes. That's threatening to a canine, and threatening is the last thing you want to be. Along with that, stay calm. If you don't, the dog will either think you want a fight or are scared, both of which can be detrimental. Beyond that, here are a list of considerations that could keep a dog attack from occurring once you've happened upon an aggressive dog. 1. You might try commanding the dog to "sit," or "stay." This could give you time to think or even get away. 2. Do not make any sudden movements. Rather, keep your hands down at your sides. This may serve to calm the dog down and show them that you are not a threat. 3. Do not turn your back on the dog. Canines often take that as a sign of weakness or an opening to attack. 4. Further, do not run away. That will probably only cause the dog to come after you. Dogs have a prey-drive. Attack dogs can have a very strong prey-drive. 4. Don't smile. Bared teeth may signify aggression to a dog. 5. Back away slowly once the dog stops paying attention to you. Oftentimes, utilizing the aforementioned in such a way will keep a dog from attacking. However, if this doesn't stop the impending attack, then there are further things to consider. When All Hell Breaks Loose: Steps to Take Against an Attacking Dog 1. Put something between your body and the dog's teeth if you can. This could be a stick or something that separates the two of you. Of course, it could be a jacket wrapped around your arm, etc. Remember, that if you give it an arm then you have another plus both your legs free. Along with this, you don't want to end up on the ground with a dog. 2. If you understand Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, then you know that oftentimes attempting to simply pull your arm out of an armbar only serves to allow the hold to come together more easily. Along with this, pulling your arm from a biting dog will only help them to rip it to pieces. Thus, this is a bad idea. 3. By the way, this is the time to try that pepper spray to the dog's eyes (once the attack has commenced). If that works, great! AT this point, the pepper spray can have the best chances of working. The reason is this: If an attack dog is charging you, and you pull out your spray and fire it at the dog, the dog can be moving so fast it charges right through it, fighting now with it's mouth and teeth, continuing to bite even if some spray does get into it's eyes. So, rather than spray as it's charging, you want to spray once you've brought the dog to a halt so that it can absorb the full brunt of the spray. 4. This is also the time that you might want to try that stick you brought. However, your best bet may not be to simply hit an attacking canine with it (though you could try that). Rather, attempt to shove it down the dog's throat. This may cause the canine to choke and give you back your arm. If a stick isn't available, you might even consider shoving the arm the dog has down its throat depending on your situation as it could possibly have the same effect. 5. If none of the above work, then you're running out of options beyond trying to truly beat the dog at its own game (in other words, no pun intended, you're about to embark in a dogfight). Along with this, strikes to the eyes -- it's time to get mean -- or the throat may be in order. 6. If that doesn't work, you could even try grabbing one of the dog's hind legs, according to George Donahue at FightingArts.com, and ripping up (thus putting the dog on its back in a submissive position). This could allow you to drag it. Remember, though, that such a movement may put you at risk for ending up on the ground (a bad thing as it leaves your neck and other vital areas open to the dog). So proceed with care. 7. Of course, this is all assuming that you don't have a gun on you. Still, you would only use such weaponry as a last resort (even if one of these SecretsofSurvival.com scenarios did play out). Remember that most dogs act angrily only when they feel that you are threatening them or their family. Thus, the above steps could very well work before resorting to such tactics. But that doesn't necessarily mean they will. In the end, dog attacks can be vicious and bloody. In fact, they can be deadly. Along with this, being prepared can mean the difference between life and death. As with any survival scenario, you should choose life and be ready. Other Weapons to Consider in a Dog Attack Pitchfork - A pitchfork is dangerous to attacking dogs. They have been used successfully to kill attacking dogs (including pit bulls) in the past by farmers and families alike. Pitchforks are designed for bailing hay. But the multiple sharpened spear points are a dangerous weapon against attacking dogs. Baseball bat - A baseball bat, especially an aluminum bat, is a great weapon against an attacking dog -- you just have to have the eye-hand coordination to swing and connect as it's rushing at you with it's teeth bared. Sometimes standing in front of a dangerous dog with a bat or club raised high can be enough to make it leave you alone (if the dog has previously learned to fear a club or threatening arm). Most dogs may turn tail after taking a baseball bat to the head or shoulders. But, in the case of a very angry, large, dangerous dog, one swing may only stun it temporarily. Be ready to swing again, hard and furiously. Use footwork to step back and then step laterally and step forward again after each swing hits. That way you're never in the same place and by using footwork (from boxing, martial, etc) you make it a bit harder for the dog to find anything to bite into, after it's been hit; hit the dog again and again until it finally flees or is out for the count. Survival knife - If you're traveling through an area following a catastrophic disaster, realize that dangerous dogs may be loose -- especially in a "post-apocalypse" scenario. If you don't have any barbed-wire to wrap your foream in, wrap it in some kind of heavy cloth (like a coat) and keep a survival knife ready and in your hand, blade unsheathed. If a dangerous dog attacks, give it your forearm; as it sinks it's teeth in, stab repeatedly and viciously with your other arm just under it's front leg, or above the top of it's shoulder, through it's shoulder-blades and into it's organs. This dog doesn't have a chance; keep stabbing and don't let go of the knife. Taken to the Ground by an Attack Dog Ok, so the worst case scenario has happened, and a dangerous dog has taken you to the ground. Your first instinct should be to protect your throat and back of your neck by covering your head in your hands. With your head covered in your hands, roll your entire body fast (rolling on the ground is an easy movement for people -- throw yourself to the ground and try it sometime), at the same time rolling a forearm toward it's mouth. If a dog is going to bite anything, let it bite your forearm -- that is better than a dog biting your throat or face. Once it has an arm in it's mouth, time to think fast. With your other arm, grab it's face, find an eye socket, and bury your thumb furiously into the dog's eye; destroy the eyeball; pop that thing, as disgusting as it might sound. But attacking the eyeball can cause this dog to finally let up. If it doesn't let up, you have two more body parts to go for: A) The other eyeball. B) The carotid arteries in the neck. You'll need both hands to go for the carotid arteries; which an opportunity may present itself if the dog attacks a leg or you've ended up on top of the dog while rolling around. Clap both hands around it's neck and squeeze; reports say you can quickly choke a dog to death by cutting off the blood flow to the brain. Careful though; if you let it up too soon it may only be stunned momentarily and may suddenly resume the attack. A Pack of Dogs Against a pack of dogs you've got your work cut out for you. In some communities following a catastrophic disaster, after several weeks dogs may begin to band together and form packs. As food becomes scarce and days go by without eating, tempers can increase and pack mentality can make these dogs a lot more dangerous than they were before the disaster. If you're attacked by a pack of dogs, even as few as three dogs, you're going to have a hard time making it out of this attack without injury. With just a knife you might stab the first dog, but not before the other two sink their teeth into you and begin biting and tearing. As unlikely a scenario as this may seem for people, in a time of collapse it would be smart to travel with multiple people, each armed with a weapon for self-defense. There will be packs of dogs in several areas and you may come across a pack of dogs more than once. Defending Against A Pack of Dogs You might want to have a strategy, where you take a position you can defend against wild dogs anytime you come to a new area. Look for parked cars and trucks -- you can fight from the back of pick-up trucks and most dogs won't be able to get to you. You may also be able to climb on to the hood of a car and swing or shoot (such as a bow and arrow) your weapon from there. Once in a new area, use noise to entice a pack of dogs to your location. The same methods that work for hunting wolves in Canada and even parts of the U.S. will probably have a good effect on dog packs also. Dogs themselves are actually not far removed from wolves, genetically. Remember they can breed together; they're the same species. The same dynamics that take place in wolf packs will take place in dog packs also; they can likely be hunted using the same tactics that wolves can be hunted. Wolves are territorial and also curious animals. A good wolf-howl can cause other wolves to howl or bark in return. Use a good wolf-howl to draw in a pack of dogs. Wolves are also drawn to young or dying animals -- these are typically an easy meal for a wolf. Wolves can be hunted using "predator calls" (a device) that makes a sound to mimic the sound of a specific animal, such as a field mouse, rabbit, or elk. You can carry a "predator call" in your backpack or you can simply practice making animal sounds by studying the sounds of wildlife and then doing your best to mimic them. Use these calls to draw in a pack of dogs. Drawing in a Dog Pack to a Position You Can Fight From What you want to do is catch the attention of dangerous dogs and draw them to an area where you can fight from -- such as the back of a parked pick-up truck or even a porch in the front or back of a person's house, one that you've blocked off with boards, for example -- one that allows you a position to fight from without a dog actually getting to you. Shark Cage Picture a gorilla cage with bars. Or a shark cage that an underwater diver might film from. If you can build a makeshift "cage" and then draw a pack of dogs (or even wolves, if you're in the mountains, or coyotes), you'll have a safe place to fight from, where canine teeth can't get to you. What do you build this cage out of? Anything tall, straight, and solid that you can scavenge. It could be planks from a fence or deck, for example. Knock apart the deck or fence with a hammer, until you have plent of wood to work with; dig holes in the ground, and position them in a circle (creating a "cage"); finally, use braces at the top and rope to fasten the "cage" together at the top; this way it doesn't press apart if dogs lunge at it or try to get through. Keep enough space between planks that you can see through and thrust your weapon through, but close enough together that a dog can't get it's head through. You can inflict injury on a pack of dogs from where you are protected within the cage you've put together. Chain Link Fence to Defend Against Dogs You can also do this with a chain link fence; though if you choose to use a chain link fence you'll need to use a weapon such as a spear with a sharpened point that is narrow enough to thrust through holes in the chain link; a pitchfork can work also, though it won't have the same reach as a spear. In a time of collapse, it might be smart to collect chain link fencing (just cut it down off existing fence in commercial areas) and surround your living area with it. Shot Gun If you have the means and the ammo, a shot gun is a great weapon to use against a pack of dogs or even wolves. Be able to reload quickly, just in case these dogs or wolves are a bit too eager, perhaps more hungry and less daunted by gun shots than usual. Take Down the Alpha When it comes to a pack of dogs, just like wolves, try to spot the alpha male and even an alpha female -- a pack of dogs can be a lot like a pack of wolves. The alpha male may be the most dangerous and vicious of the pack. Aim for him first. The reason he's the alpha is that he's the toughest and most vicious of the pack. Wounding or killing him first just might send a message. Intimidating a Dangerous Dog or Wolf When you have no other choice, you can try to intimidate a dog or pack of dogs or even a pack of wolves (this also works with mountain lions; don't try it though with African lions). Yell and scream with rage in your voice at the dog louder than you've ever yelled or screamed before; shout with violence in your voice; roar (yeah, I said "roar"). Stand up tall and waive your arms threateningly; throw rocks, act dangerous and unstable. Continue to yell. Scare the pants off this dog. Dogs and wolves can be scared off. This is a method that has worked for people in the past. I have to admit though -- though this might work just fine today on your next bike ride or jog through a rural area on a loose dog you come across, there's a good chance it may not work during a time of collapse or even a "post-apocalypse" scenario when multiple dangers are likely to be in the land. Dogs and wolves may simply be unphased by intimidation tactics, should that day come. Pit Bulls May Be More Dangerous Than Wolves Be wary of using intimidation tactics on pit bulls. You probably shouldn't even try. This is one breed that may be more aggresive than even wolves and your aggresion is only going to trigger more aggresion in a pit bull. Why? Several generations of pit bulls have been bred for aggression, which may include the pit bulls that have just spotted you. Wolves in the wild, on the other hand, aren't bred for aggression, though they can be extremely aggresive by nature. A pit bull is like your crazy Uncle Larry: Pit bulls are sometimes "not right" in the head. They don't make good guard dogs for a camp simply because they pose a risk of attacking people who belong to the camp -- especially children. While a wolf in the wild might take more predictacle actions, a pit bull is just too unpredictable. You better have a Plan-B for dealing with pit bulls. Don't count on trying to intimidate any pit bulls you encounter. Pit Bulls Are the Most Dangerous Dogs The unfortunate thing about pit bulls also is this: Not only are they the most dangerous dog with by far the most maimings and killings than any other canine in the U.S. (including wolves), there are also a high number of pit bulls. Most likely someone in your community owns one; some communities have more than one pit bull owner, owning more than one pit bull. Some are probably great pets, though may still be dangerous to others, especially if they get loose following a collapse or widespread disaster. Hope for the best -- but be prepared for the worst. Getting caught unprepared by a pack of vicious dogs is probably one of the most painful ways to die. Unfortunately, it's likely to happen to people in multiple communities should society as we know it fall to the ground. Update: What's the best weapon for a bicyclist to use on a dangerous dog? Police stun baton A reader commented on this article (see "Comments" section below): "I recently started bicycle riding and went on a 35 mile ride last weekend and I ended up on a road called Indian School road just east of Scottsdale, AZ. This is rural Indian land and went past one house and one huge dog started racing towards me, then to my horror I saw about 8 or 9 other equally large dogs (not sure of breeds, but mastiffs, dobermans, rottweilers, etc) also racing towards me - I pedaled like crazy and they caught up with me, snarling, snapping away at my feet, it seemed like forever, but maybe they were at me for 0.25 to 0.5 miles and eventually they dropped back. Scariest moment of my life. I really believe I would have been mauled to death if I came off. I won't go on any land like this again, but a question, what kind of gun should I get that would be effective here and also practical on a bike?" Response: I had to do a bit of research to find something that is likely to do the job you need it to do (mace, pepper spray, ultrasonic noise devices are just likely to fail you in a situation like this). You could carry a shot gun, but can you get to it in time before a pack of dangerous dogs gets to you? Not likely. Weeks could go by, you'll be complacent, it might be in your backpack. I checked out a forum by triathletes (runners, bicyclists, etc) and after all my reading today, have to say that one product that's recommended (and proven) is a stun baton. All things considered, this is possibly the most effective self defense product that a bicyclist can use in a hurry, on a pack of dangerous dogs that's giving chase. REFERENCES: First Class Dog Training: Free 20 Minute Video on Preventing Dog Attacks George Donahue: Dealing with Dog Attacks How to Handle a Dog Attack As you're pedaling and the first dog comes up on your legs, point the baton down and press the stun button. You've got a three foot buffer between you and the dog. The voltage in one of these is going to paralyze the first dog; if that doesn't scare off the rest of the pack, use it on dog # 2 as he gets close to your pedals. The only trick to using this device is that you need to make sure this thing is charged (has electricity stored inside). You can mount it to your handlebars so that you can get to it easily as you're riding, or strap it to your back. Practice pulling it and using it as you're riding. Please be safe and Careful out there, Love and Light To All LadiofZen

Sunday, January 27, 2013

Ripley and Me

I adopted Ripley when she was seven months old from a couple who obviously wanted to be rid of her. It wasn't long before I realized why. She was pregnant. While I certainly didn't want a batch of puppies, I couldn't get rid of her either. She has obviously been abused and my heart connected with hers in a very strong way. Ripley was not a pretty puppy when I got her; scruffy and too thin, her coat dull and wiry, she desperately needed someone to love and care for her and that someone was me. I haven't been sorry for even one single moment. She became, without any effort at all, the most loving and intelligent dog I have ever owned and my best friend. She became my shadow and constant companion with the most empathic abilities. Through lovers that came and went, heartache and tragedy, and certainly my best times, she was there by my side. In a winter where my heat had gone off and I lay shivering from the cold, Ripley lay beside me, sharing her warmth. When I was ill for nine months and bedridden, she never left my side. And times when I was beset with grief, tears falling from my eyes, she licked the tears away and offered me her comfort. Suffice to say she is my friend and I am hers. Simply put, we love and understand one another. I am grateful for that day she came to live with me and I wonder sometimes how I would have got along without her. I don't want to think about it but when the day comes when she is old and past her prime, I will take car of her as she has taken care of me. With love and understanding and I'll be there at her side to the end. Until Next Time Dear Friends... Love and Light To All, LadiofZen

Sunday, December 30, 2012

Using The Powers Of Your Thoughts

Recently I moved from Madison Wi to Austin Tx and began recreating my life. In doing so, I neglected one major tool for manifesting my desires which was and is the power of thought. I had known this for too many years to count but in the first days in Austin, I had forgotten. Let me explain ... We moved to Austin and sublet-ed the first few months with just the barest essentials in order to find a new abode, leaving just about everything we owned in storage. The first few days in Austin, our VW was not drivable and we had no choice but to sit in the house every day. We knew no one in Austin and had no friends or acquaintances which made it lonely at times. It didn't take long before utter and complete boredom set in despite our best efforts to keep ourselves entertained. We couldn't do what needed to be done for our car until the 1st of the month and we didn't have much of a choice with the situation. We did however have a choice how we saw our situation and what we did with it and that was something I much needed to remember. I hadn't been very positive in the last month and it showed and reflected in my thoughts and words. I realized I needed to change that and immediately change my environment. Sometimes, when we are in the middle of a change and even when we are not, we forget the power of our thoughts. Thoughts have the power to transform into reality when we really believe in them in a positive way. Someone once told me that if I really wanted something, believe as if I already had it, which is excellent advice. Want to be healthy? Believe you are well... Want to get a new job? Believe you will find just the right one... A new place to live? Believe that you will find the perfect house in just the right neighborhood... You get the idea but it shows that our mind is a powerful tool for manifesting your desires. If you are open, positive and believe in the Universe's gifts to you, you will get what you want and what you need. Try it and see ... "One of the best kept secrets is the power of thought. You create that which you think. Thinking of someone or something actually creates a thought that is sent out into the atmosphere. That is the secret. Thoughts are matter..." ~Mary Dean Atwood from the book Spirit Healing Until Next time, My Dear Friends... Love and Light To You All, LadiofZen